These clever and creative Lesbian Valentine’s Day cards bring representation to the forefront, offering visibility through cultural references and a mix of heartfelt, cheeky, and deeply personal sentiments. From U-Haul puns that resonate uniquely within the sapphic community to illustrations that honor our shared history, these cards let us feel seen, heard, and celebrated in love.
1. Curvy Lesbian Valentine’s Day Card
This folky lesbian Valentine’s Day card, with its dreamy sunlit embrace, celebrates love rooted in nature and simplicity. Created by Maya Chessman and Freya Elise of Tulips and Heather Shop, it’s the perfect choice for the nature-loving sapphic who feels love like a forest clearing on a golden afternoon.
2. “I Love You” Sapphic Lesbian Greetings Card
If she loves the outdoors, then this sapphic card is perfect for her. It radiates warmth and romance with its vibrant scene of two women standing together in front of a sunlit mountain backdrop. Designed by Emily A. Foster (she/they), a queer neurodivergent illustrator.
3. “Be My Valentine?” Lesbian Card
It’s like being back in high school, but this time we get to really be ourselves with this sweet, vulnerable, question: “Be My Valentine?” So many girls we wish we could have asked this to, growing up!
This lesbian Valentine’s card’s old school call back and simplicity can be for either 1) anyone stepping into a new love or 2) nurturing both your inner child or 3) resparking your romance.
Fun tip: Put your invitation to a lovely lesbian Valentines Day date idea you have planned!
4. “U-Had Me At Hello” U-Haul Truck Lesbian Card
An infamous inside joke in lesbian culture is about the U-Haul truck, a playful reference to the stereotype about lesbians moving fast in relationships. This funny lesbian Valentine’s Day card is a cheeky nod to the speed of queer love and sapphic love at first sight. It’s designed by Laura Jane Kirton, an artist known for designing colorful, affirming art for LGBTQ+ and neurodivergent folks.
5. Head Over Wheels in Love Lesbian Card
Another U-Haul joke (classic lesbian slang) but this lesbian card mentions the depth of sapphic love. Featuring a U-Haul truck with the words “Head over wheels for you.” Created by Heather of Little Rainbow Paper Co., which centers queer love and relationships through vibrant stationery.
6. “I’ve Got a Big Lesbian Crush on You” Card
This quote is a nod to Mean Girls, an American millennial classic. There are endless quotes from this movie that we use in everyday talk from “and none for you Glen Coco” to subtly referring to a lesbian as “lebanese” (a niche joke in the movie). There are theories that Regina was actually a lesbian. So what funnier way to make a pop cultural reference with this lesbian card quoting Janis before she dove into a sea of girls. It’s created by That Queer Card Co., whose mission is to celebrate queer love with visibility and pride (no wonder they get such a niche joke).
7. “Best Girlfriend Ever” Valentine’s Day Card
Vibrant gold foil-stamped against a minimalist background, this card is perfect if you struggle with words of affirmation. Simple, sincere, and loudly appreciative, because your girlfriend deserves to be celebrated and it’s good to show it!
8. “You’re My Forever Valentine” Lesbian Card
This lesbian Valentine’s Day card is designed by the lesbian couple behind Sesame But Different, who create lesbian webcomics inspired by their real-life love story. This meaningful card expresses your forever commitment to your girlfriend.
9. Be My Valentine Again Card
Choosing love, again and again, is the true hallmark of lasting romance. With its playful hand-drawn heart and gentle plea, “Be My Valentine Again,” this Valentine’s Day card reminds us that love isn’t a one-time ask. Created by Culture Flock, a queer woman-owned brand known for their inclusive apparel and goods.
10. “Hey Girl. I’ll Be Your Valentine” Kristen Stewart Card
Kristen Stewart has been a lesbian cultural icon, ever since she relatably late-bloomed into her wonderful lesbian-self. Featuring her image, this lesbian Valentine card leans into that fandom with playful confidence. It’s also designed by Culture Flock (queer woman-owned).
11. “Be Mine Valentine” Pansies Sapphic Valentine’s Day Card
Featuring violet flowers, a classic lesbian symbol that goes back to the ancient Greek poet Sappho (where we get the words lesbian and sapphic from), this lesbian Valentine’s card incorporates lesbian history and culture. Perfect if your girlfriend is into lesbian history.
It’s also designed by queer-affirming brand Little Rainbow Paper Co.
12. “To My Girlfriend on Valentine’s Day” Watercolor Holiday Card
Hands are such an emblematic part of sapphic flirting and culture. And this lesbian Valentine’s Day card captures that tender connection with a soft, watercolor-inspired design.
13. Vintage Valentines Card
This vintage Valentine’s card, features two women sharing a kiss on a mirror framed by lavender flowers, and channels the elegance of yesteryear. Lavender, a symbol of sapphic love, adds an extra layer of meaning. Designed by Brazilian illustrator Jenifer Prince who’s known for her vintage-inspired depictions of lesbian intimacy.
14. Girl Crush Sapphic Card
This vintage-inspired sapphic card by Jennifer Prince captures all the books/movies that take place in the past about sapphic lovers from Tipping the Velvet to Last Night at the Telegraph. It also gives you that first-flush affection of a budding crush. It’s sweet, soft, and undeniably sapphic.
15. Vintage Ladies Kiss Greeting Card
With its vintage-inspired design of two women sharing a kiss in front of a red heart, this lesbian card exudes timeless romance. It’s perfect for anyone who adores old-school lesbian history or sapphic elegance. A charming nod to the media about the queer ladies before us.
16. Will You Match My Freak
This eccentric digital printable card invites your crush to embrace your quirks with a yes-or-no checkbox. It’s a nod to the viral TikTok sound “is somebody gonna match my freak”. Leave it to the queers, to not only be accepting but proud of our “freak.”
Psstt: Check out my Lesbian TikTok guide.
17. Couldn’t Have Asked For A Better Woman Card
This lesbian card is a simple but powerful reminder that sometimes, love feels like winning the lottery. Featuring the words “Couldn’t have asked for a better woman” framed in a heart, it’s a sweet way to remind your partner that she’s one-of-a-kind. It’s also created by Little Rainbow Paper Co.
18. LGBTQILOVEU Card
A playful twist on classic love notes, this queer card spells it out simply but proudly with “LGBTQI❤U“. This could be great for your queer friend, family member, or partner. Especially if they’re active in LGBT work. Created by the queer and trans-owned Ladyfingers Letterpress.
19. “My Best Days Are Always With You” Card
Love isn’t always peaks and fireworks. Sometimes, doing absolutely nothing with the one you love like the shared silence on the couch can be a testament to real long term love. And this lesbian card, featuring two women cuddled up, says what we all know to be true: some of the best days are the quiet ones comfortably spent together. Also created by Sesame But Different (lesbian webcomics), it’s a gentle, everyday kind of love.
OR Make Your Own Sapphic Valentine’s Day Card
For something even more personal, craft your own card to add that special touch, Thanks to lesbian TikTok, you’re never short on inspiration:
- Put on some lipstick and create a lipstick stained card like this.
- Maybe write her a short lesbian love poem to make her heart race.
- Make it a foldable vintage piece like this or by adding pop-up elements and movable pieces.
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