Ah, how else to feel truly seen than by reading poems that capture the depths of sapphic love? A love so profound, so tender, and so transformative that only poetry can offer a glimpse into its many layers. These are the words that catch in your throat, the verses you scribble in your journal at 2 a.m., the confessions you save in your Notes app but never send. It’s the spark of romantic inspiration and the recognition of something so uniquely yours—something only a poet can put into words.
The lesbian love poems in this collection take you through the full spectrum of sapphic love: the exhilarating beginnings, the quiet comforts, the fiery declarations, and yes, even the heartache. What makes them so resonant is how they explore not just romance, but identity—because for queer women, love isn’t just love; it’s rebellion, sanctuary, and a thousand shades in between.
While many of these poets identify as lesbians, others may be queer, bisexual, or resist labels altogether. Their shared exploration of sapphic love and identity brings together a kaleidoscope of perspectives, each offering a unique voice that refuses to fit neatly into one box.
Romantic Lesbian Poems About Sapphic Love
1. Untitled by Lyra Wren
“You cannot love her,” They whisper.
“For it is a sin.”
I only smile at their words knowing that
they have not knelt at her altar
nor tasted the divinity staining her lips.
They have not heard her giggles
murmured between every kiss.
“So be it then,” I say.
“I will walk into hell gladly
knowing I’ve held heaven in my hands.”
About the author: Lyra Wren, a poet and storyteller from Indiana, combines her gift for writing with a background in studio art from Indiana University. Gaining a devoted following on TikTok, she shares poetry that speaks to the heart. Check out her captivating poetry collections, The Lost Girls and The Stars that Knew You!
2. Valentine by Carol Ann Duffy
Not a red rose or a satin heart.
I give you an onion.
It is a moon wrapped in brown paper.
It promises light
like the careful undressing of love.
Here.
It will blind you with tears
like a lover.
It will make your reflection
a wobbling photo of grief.
I am trying to be truthful.
Not a cute card or a kissogram.
I give you an onion.
Its fierce kiss will stay on your lips,
possessive and faithful
as we are,
for as long as we are.
Take it.
Its platinum loops shrink to a wedding ring,
if you like.
Lethal.
Its scent will cling to your fingers,
cling to your knife.
About the author: From Glasgow, Scotland, Carol Ann Duffy broke barriers as the UK’s first woman and openly gay Poet Laureate. Her lesbian poetry explores themes of love, gender, and societal challenges with a bold, modern edge.
3. Sunshine by Pat Parker
If it were possible
to place you in my brain
to let you roam around
in and out
my thought waves
you would never
have to ask
why do you love me?
This morning as you slept
I wanted to kiss you awake
say I love you till your brain
smiled and nodded yes
this woman does love me.
Each day the list grows
filled with the things that are you
things that make my heart jump
yet words would sound strange
become corny in utterance.
In the morning when I wake
I don’t look out my window
to see if the sun is shining.
I turn to you instead.
About the author: Pat Parker was a Black poet and activist from Houston, Texas. She used her bold, unapologetic voice to address the realities of being Black and lesbian in America. Her poetry fiercely confronted issues like LGBTQ+ rights and racial justice, blending raw personal truth with a powerful call for liberation.
4. Why We Can’t Be Friends by Shantii
She asked, "Why can't we just be friends?"
But I think it's better if, when we end, we end.
Just having this conversation with you is killing me.
We can't paint over our chemistry,
Black out our history,
Or rock our love into a permanent sleep
With friendship soliloquies.
What's the point of starting over with diluted titles?
Pretending we'd be perfectly content
To watch each other fall in love with someone new,
And pop out as an item.
Instead of calling you my love,
I'd have to call you by your name—
Or "bro" instead of "babe."
What's there to hold on to anyway?
Our love story went from rose-tinted to black and gray.
I guess it's because the color of love has drained.
So no, I don't want your friendship as a participation trophy.
I have to get used to side hugs,
Instead of the way you used to hold me.
Our story ran too deep,
I can't be your friend.
I would never get over you.
I just can't see myself dapping you up
Instead of holding you.
I don't need your friendship as a consolation prize,
Like every time I look at you,
I won't think of the ways you made me cry.
It took months for my river of tears to run dry.
I'd rather have none than some of you.
Lovers to friends hurts too much,
In case you didn't know.
But I'm still rooting for your happiness.
I hope you eventually heal and grow.
For some people, lovers to friends works out in the end,
But that just won't be our story.
I don't see a reason for us to continue—
It'd be like living in an infinite cliffhanger.
So unfortunately, I think it's best
If we just go from lovers to strangers.
Note: This poem is spoken on a TikTok video.
About the author: Based in Florida, Shantii After Dark is one of our favorite lesbian TikTokers with millions of views for her deeply relatable and heart-provoking spoken word poetry and discussions on sapphic relationships and personal growth.
5. Recreation by Audre Lorde
Coming together
it is easier to work
after our bodies
meet
paper and pen
neither care nor profit
whether we write or not
but as your body moves
under my hands
charged and waiting
we cut the leash
you create me against your thighs
hilly with images
moving through our word countries
my body
writes into your flesh
the poem
you make of me.
Touching you I catch midnight
as moon fires set in my throat
I love you flesh into blossom
I made you
and take you made
into me.
About the author: Audre Lorde is a “Black, lesbian, mother, warrior, poet” who was born in NYC to Caribbean immigrant parents and became a literary and activist icon. She fearlessly embraced the intersections of her identity, using her words to challenge injustice and celebrate authenticity. Today, Lorde’s work remains a masterclass in living unapologetically.
6. Poem for My Love by June Jordan
How do we come to be here next to each other
in the night
Where are the stars that show us to our love
inevitable
Outside the leaves flame usual in darkness
and the rain
falls cool and blessed on the holy flesh
the black men waiting on the corner for
a womanly mirage
I am amazed by peace
It is this possibility of you
asleep
and breathing in the quiet air
About the author: June Jordan, born in Harlem, NY, was a poet, activist, and unapologetic voice for justice. A proudly bisexual Black feminist, she used her words to challenge systems and inspire change. Her legacy is as bold, passionate, and uncompromising as her poetry.
7. Poem III by Adrienne Rich
Since we’re not young, weeks have to do time
for years of missing each other. Yet only this odd warp
in time tells me we’re not young.
Did I ever walk the morning streets at twenty,
my limbs streaming with a purer joy?
did I lean from any window over the city
listening for the future
as I listen here with nerves tuned for your ring?
And you, you move toward me with the same tempo.
Your eyes are everlasting, the green spark
of the blue-eyed grass of early summer,
the green-blue wild cress washed by the spring.
At twenty, yes: we thought we’d live forever.
At forty-five, I want to know even our limits.
I touch you knowing we weren’t born tomorrow,
and somehow, each of us will help the other live,
and somewhere, each of us must help the other die.
About the author: Adrienne Rich, born in Baltimore, Maryland, stands among the most famous lesbian poets who transformed both literature and activism. A proud feminist, her work boldly confronted power structures while delving into themes of identity, justice, and liberation. Her influence continues to shape queer and feminist writing today.
8. Untitled by Robby Deursch
You do not know what it means to be in love. And when you say you love me it is empty, And not enough. This wisdom is a necessity as I move on. I cannot allow myself to believe That true love can deceive Or do harm. That it is something that abandons, That leaves Or is anything but warm. So I will define love as something less inept, Because the love you understand Is the love that you accept And I will not accept less than transcendent Or above Love cannot destroy me, And if it can, It isn’t love.
Note: This poem is spoken on a TikTok video.
About the author: Robby Deursch is a TikToker whose beautiful, heartwarming poetry has resonated with millions of viewers. With a talent for capturing raw emotions, she’s now setting her sights on publishing her first poetry book.
9. Untitled by June Bates
I don’t love women
the way men love women.
I don’t want to tame them.
I don’t want to own them.
I don’t want to treat them
Like a trophy in a case.
I just want to be close to them.
It’s still hunger,
but a different kind of hunger.
– I almost didn’t recognize it at first.
Note: This poem is in the poetry collection She Is The Poem.
About the author: June Bates is a modern poet celebrated for her poetry collection She Is The Poem: Sapphic Poetry on Love and Becoming, The Lavender Haze: Sapphic Poetry on Love, and Love and Poetry. Her work dives into sapphic love, queer identity, and self-discovery, creating space for representation while celebrating the beauty of sapphic joy.
10. Untitled by June Bates
The first time I really let myself
fall in love with a woman,
I didn’t feel butterflies.
I never felt nervous.
The moment I was in her arms,
I knew
I was home.
Note: This poem is in the poetry collection She Is The Poem.
11. After Language by Chaia Heller
When all the drowsy metaphors
about women and fruit
have been peeled
and devoured;
there’s just you, me
a bowl full of summer peaches,
two parentheses
with nothing in between
(just space)
for the tongue’s imagination
Note: This poem is in the poetry collection My Lover Is a Woman: Contemporary Lesbian Love Poems.
12. Her, Her, Her by Caitlyn Siehl
She is a year ago.
She is the ache in the empty,
the first time you changed your mind
and the last time you were sorry about it.
She is a city sleeping beside you,
warm and vast and familiar, streetlights
yawning and stretching,
and you have never. You have never.
You have never loved someone like this.
She is your first stomach ache.
Your first panic attack and your
favorite cold shower.
A mountain is moving somewhere
inside of you, and her handprints are all over it.
Here. Here. Here, you love her.
In the fractured morning, full of
too tired and too sad, she is the first
foot that leaves the bed.
She is the fight in you, the winning
and the losing battle
floating like a shipwreck in your chest.
When they ask you what your favorite moment is,
You will say Her.
You will always say Her.
About the author: Caitlyn Siehl, a poet and author from New Jersey, is the voice behind What We Buried, which explores themes of healing and growth. She also released a new edition of Crybaby, a heartfelt poetry collection about love and loss.
13. Climb Inside of Me by Doris L. Harris
I told my woman,
I said,
Woman I ain't in the mood
for no, girl to girl love
the kind that's only made
when the moon is full, and the cat is fed
I've been waiting for you
on the edge of the bed,
there is a stairwell to the left
a ladder to the right, take any route you like
but, you hurry and climb inside of me,
I need to feel your body weight
pressing into mine, as I tear at the flesh
on your round behind, Please
Now, don't go P.C. all over me
I want to hear you call out my name,
along with God's, Jesus, and all twelve apostles
let's not wrestle with semantics
there ain't no other way to say it
there ain't no other way to claim it,
except to say, I need some woman to woman love
some of that sweat pouring, politically incorrect
arching my back
taking no prisoners
neighbors banging on the wall, kind of love
need you ready and willing,
to come and climb
inside
of me.
Note: This is a part of a lesbian love poetry collection, My Lover Is a Woman.
14. Love Poem to a Butch Woman by Deborah A. Miranda
This is how it is with me:
so strong, I want to draw the egg
from your womb and nourish it in my own.
I want to mother your child made only
of us, of me, you: no borrowed seed
from any man. I want to re-fashion
the matrix of creation, make a human being
from the human love that passes between
our bodies. Sweetheart, this is how it is:
when you emerge from the bedroom
in a clean cotton shirt, sleeves pushed back
over forearms, scented with cologne
from an amber bottle—I want to open
my heart, the brightest aching slit
of my soul, receive your pearl.
I watch your hands, wait for the sign
that means you’ll touch me,
open me, fill me; wait for that moment
when your desire leaps inside me.
About the author: Deborah A. Miranda, a poet, essayist, and educator from Los Angeles, California, brings her Ohlone-Costanoan Esselen, Chumash, and Jewish heritage into her powerful work. Her books, including Indian Cartography and Bad Indians: A Tribal Memoir, feature personal narrative and historical insight to explore Indigenous identity and the lasting impacts of colonization.
15. The Touch by Renée Vivien
The trees have kept some lingering sun in their branches,
Veiled like a woman, evoking another time,
The twilight passes, weeping. My fingers climb,
Trembling, provocative, the line of your haunches.
My ingenious fingers wait when they have found
The petal flesh beneath the robe they part.
How curious, complex, the touch, this subtle art–
As the dream of fragrance, the miracle of sound.
I follow slowly the graceful contours of your hips,
The curves of your shoulders, your neck, your unappeased breasts.
In your white voluptuousness my desire rests,
Swooning, refusing itself the kisses of your lips.
About the author: Renée Vivien, born in London, England, was a British poet celebrated for her bold and passionate exploration of sapphic love in her lesbian poems. Written in French and inspired by Sappho, her work captures deep longing and desire, with notable collections like Cendres et Poussières and Sillages.
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