Lesbian Gifts Guide: 14 Ideas for Cute Presents

Let me help you find the perfect gift for the lesbian in your life. Whether it’s family at Christmas, your lesbian friend’s birthday, your girlfriend’s anniversary, or special occasions like weddings, Valentine’s Day, or even Pride Month, this lesbian gifts guide has you covered.

Every suggestion here is rooted in queer and lesbian culture, ensuring that your gift speaks directly to the unique connection you share—from DIY zines to lesbian jewelry; these 14 ideas celebrate the magic of lesbian identity and the joy of gifting with intention.

1. Handmade Scrapbook/Zine of Your Love Story

A handmade scrapbook or zine is a special kind of gift that shows deep love because it’s more than just shelling out $200 for a necklace in 2.5 seconds. Imagine flipping through pages of your shared history and milestones with photos, doodles, and other mementos of the important moments that stitched your love together. If verbal affirmations aren’t your forte, then here’s your chance to say what you love about her and show her everything you’ve been feeling but couldn’t quite articulate.

I love printing polaroids from my phone using the Instax palm-size printer. Then you can add captions from how much she’s helped you to what you’re grateful for, and what you love about her. You could even weave in romantic Sapphic poetry, quotes from letters you’ve written to each other, collage cutouts, and/or stories or illustrations. Think about significant dates and places—where you met, your first date, that tiny café with the best chai lattes—and immortalize them on the page.

For my right-brain lesbians, you could also create a timeline of your relationship from the day you met, capturing those ‘firsts’ and the journeys you’ve taken together. You could paste them all in a personalized leather scrapbook.

For more guidance, see these tutorials and inspirations on zine-making, 3D museum-style letters, and card folding to help bring your scrapbook or zine to life.

2. Lesbian Books & Literature

Blue book cover with line illustration of women-loving-women.

Queer coffee table books can make a statement and spark conversations. I absolutely adore the Queer Heroes of Myth and Legend: A Celebration of Gay Gods, Sapphic Saints, and Queerness Through the Ages by Dan Jones. The cover is stunning, and the book takes you through queer icons like Artemis, who’ve left their mark on mythology. For a modern twist, This Arab Is Queer: An Anthology by LGBTQ+ Arab Writers by Elias Jahshan offers a poignant collection of essays that spotlight the diverse voices of LGBTQ+ Arabs. 300,000 Kisses: Tales of Queer Love from the Ancient World by Seán Hewitt and Luke Edward Hall resurrects ancient queer love stories, proving that our capacity for love transcends time. And if you’re after something that’s as funny as it is insightful, Gay Science: The Totally Scientific Examination of LGBTQ+ Culture, Myths, and Stereotypes by Rob Anderson delivers laughs while exploring LGBTQ+ myths with a “scientific” twist.

Baby gay books are also perfect for those new to the queer scene or anyone navigating their identity. Late Bloomers: Awakening to Lesbianism After Forty by Robin McCoy is an empowering read for anyone who’s come out later in life. Girls Can Kiss Now by Jill Gutowitz serves up a delightful mix of millennial humor and personal insight, capturing the sometimes awkward but always enlightening journey of figuring out your sexuality today.

Lesbian zines can be an intimate, personal, and offbeat gift. Turns Out I Was a Lesbian All Along is a digital zine for those who’ve had that late-blooming realization about their sexuality. For an educational yet deeply personal touch, the Etymology of Black Lesbian Gender explores the evolution of Black lesbian gendered language, offering a rich historical perspective. Badass Lesbians That Inspire Me celebrates the trailblazing lesbians who’ve made significant impacts, making it a tribute to their legacy. Finally, Am I Queer? Watching TV in the Mid-2000s by ÆSTHETIC WORKSHOP provides a nostalgic dive into 2000s pop culture moments that sparked queer self-discovery.

For Christmas, you could add this book as one of the many presents you gift your partner, daughter, or queer friend!

3. Lesbian-Coded Jewelry

Golden snake-shaped earring worn on left ear.

Three bracelets with gold beads and beads with the color of the lesbian flag worn on a left wrist.

When it comes to expressing lesbian pride with delicate hints, I love lesbian-coded jewelry. One of the biggest symbols in lesbian culture right now is the snake. Consider these gorgeous snake-shaped gold earrings, by a queer, trans-owned fine jewelry company. For the classic rainbow, this subtle rainbow ring is perfect or for a more affordable rainbow, check out this necklace. Ideal for us femmes who don’t “look gay” but want to put out signals. For a slightly more overt pow, this gold necklace with intertwined women symbols should do the trick!

I also adore this dainty lesbian gold bracelet with lesbian flag color beads. For a louder color pop, this sapphic pride ring uses a resin design in the lesbian flag colors.

Lastly, this breast-shaped ring with gemstone nipples is a cute feminist avant-garde choice that celebrates our bodies with pride.

4. Queer Writing Explorations

A zine with cover text "Songs of Ourselves: Writing Prompts for Queer Self Discovery" on a typewriter with plants in the background.

Blue, yellow, green, orange, and white zines with titles "Things that make my heart jump" being held by a right hand.

These fun book prompts inspire queer introspection and creativity, making them perfect for creatives or writers who love to express their inner world.

First up, Song of Ourselves: Writing Prompts for Queer Self Discovery is filled with prompts designed to help readers reflect, play, and delve deeper into their queer identity. And for those who revel in the art of poetry, Things That Make My Heart Jump is a sapphic blackout poetry zine that combines activism with creativity; inspired by Black lesbian activist and poet Pat Parker’s evocative poem “Sunshine,” this zine offers two activity pages where readers can create their own blackout poems and list the things that make their heart leap.

5. Experience Gifts

Two women holding a plate of food behind a counter during a cooking class. — Puerto Rican cooking class

A woman taking a selfie while horseback riding in the mountains. — Puerto Rican cooking class

Imagine the delight on your partner’s face when they unwrap tickets to a self-defense class or a pottery workshop. It’s not just a gift; it’s a quality-time adventure. So find something they’ll be excited about. Have they always wanted to try horseback riding or dive into a new hobby? How about a wine-tasting event, a cooking class, or even a weekend getaway. It’d be a chance to spend quality time together, enjoy each other’s company, and create new experiences as a couple.

For an added touch of queer magic, surprise them with tickets to a queer event like passes to NewFest, a NYC queer film festival, or a visit to a lesbian space to celebrate their identity while enjoying something they’re passionate about.

6. Wellness Experiences

For the lesbian in your life that needs some self-care and relaxation, consider treating them to a spa day. Sometimes we just don’t treat ourselves, until someone hands us a ticket to the experience itself. Imagine them sinking into a plush robe, sipping herbal tea, and letting the worries of the world melt away under the soothing touch of a skilled massage therapist in a beautiful spa like AIRE Baths in SoHo. Or, consider creating them a wellness basket with all natural products from Lush, with bath bombs and face clays. But if a full day at the spa feels like a bit out of budget, just a massage can be the healing experience she needs to release tension and soothe muscles.

7. Uniquely Cool Flowers or Plants

A set of blue orchids whose stems are dipped in water in a cylindrical clear glass vase.

A small snake plant on a small white-and-pink pot.

I think this is especially cool if your girl is a masc lesbian. Because I feel like they don’t get enough affection/attention in this regard. I absolutely adore these electrically blue orchid flowers—a bold choice that’s distinctive. You can get them in blue, red, white, or a mix! They delivered the flowers with a vase; you can get 10-40 flowers, and they lasted weeks, brightening up the room.

As for plants, I super recommend a snake plant with a cute planter. These plants are really hard to kill as they require less watering, and they will add a nice pop of green life to any room.

8. Pottery Kit

Different pottery materials on a wooden table.

For the ultimate creative date night, consider the Sculpd Pottery Kit. This air-dry clay kit comes with everything you need to get started, making it perfect for couples who want to dive into their artistic side without any fuss. A pottery kit is an invitation for an artistic time to create something together from a mug to a planter.

If you’re aiming for an experience that sparks both creativity and conversation, check out the Pottery Date Night Box. This kit includes conversation cards to keep the dialogue flowing as you shape your masterpieces. It’s a fun way to bond, laugh, and maybe even discover new things about each other—all while getting your hands a little dirty.

9. Lesbian Card Games

A box of game "Love Battleship" for lesbians.

A box of card with text "The Ultimate Lesbian Conversation".

For the couple who loves a bit of strategy with their romance, there’s the Love Battleship Game for Lesbians. This game takes the classic Battleship rules and gives them a delightful lesbian twist. It’s a playful way to engage in a bit of friendly competition while celebrating your love and connection.

If you’re looking to spark deeper conversations and a few laughs, try The Ultimate Lesbian Conversation. With over a hundred topics ranging from girl-on-girl culture to hilarious ex stories, it’s the perfect way to dive into those juicy conversations that make your bond stronger and your nights more memorable.

For a more intimate game night with your partner, check out The Lesbian Love Shuffle. Designed specifically for couples, this game blends fun with sapphic flirtation, making it an ideal choice for a cozy night in.

When it comes to adding a little fun and flair to your date nights or hangouts, lesbian card games are the perfect way to spice things up between queer friends and/or your partner, while learning little more about each other.

10. Queer-Themed Mugs

A white mug with colorful design of watermelon, mango, apple and text "just a little fruity."

A white mug with pink handle and interior, and print text "vagitarian," and illustration of snakes, plants, outer space, and female parts.

For a cheerful way to enjoy your morning coffee, here are some super lesbian pride mugs:

“Just a Little Fruity” mug is a playful nod to queer pride with its retro, fruit-themed design. It’s a cheerful way to enjoy your morning coffee or tea while embracing a touch of whimsy.
“Vagitarian” mug for those who appreciate a bit more edge, featuring a design with snakes, space, and lady parts.
The “Live Laugh Lesbian” mug is a delightful choice because of its typewriter font, especially for bookish or writerly lesbians. Get it in beige or blue!
“Te Queero Mucho” mug adds a Spanish flair with the vibrant, LGBT colors against a classic black mug.
“Sip with Pride” mug offers a sleek design that celebrates LGBTQ+ pride, with the cute typewriter font in rainbow against a classic clay color and vibrantly blue interior.

11. Astrology & Spiritual Sapphic Gifts

Astrology has always held a special place in the lesbian community, offering a blend of mysticism into our culture. Whether she’s a full-on astro girly or just intrigued by the celestial, here are some cool astrology-themed gifts.

Start with a personalized birth chart reading for just $20, she’ll get personalized insights into her astrological makeup (including planets, houses, and more). Usually, a birth chart reading is over $100, so that’s a great deal!

Crystals are not only beautiful adornments but also hold a special place in the sapphic spiritual realm. Consider getting her a beautiful raw rose quartz for love or genuine moldavite for transformative change.

Tarot decks can be both fun and insightful. This queer-inclusive tarot deck embraces diverse representations, while the moon witch tarot deck features stunning black cards with beautiful designs. Both options provide a mystical experience with an inclusive twist.

Also, zodiac sign choker necklace is a chic way for her to wear her star sign proudly. Available in silver or gold, with a pendant of her zodiac constellation, it’s a subtle yet meaningful accessory.

Lastly, a singing bowl can add a calming and meditative touch to her space. The bronze bowl with its wooden striker creates soothing sounds that are perfect for meditation or just setting a peaceful atmosphere.

12. LGBTQ+ Pride Merch

A woman wearing a green sweater with golden-colored text "Sappho someone will remember us", white top underneath it, necklace, and denim pants.

A woman doing a peace sign wearing an oversized shirt with a printed pink text "Chappell's the best in the midwest; call me hot, not pretty" and mostly pink illustrations of a woman, pizza, and telephone.

How about a Sappho sweater as a nod to the ancient lesbian poet, Sappho? With its understated golden text of Sappho’s name and her quote, “Someone will remember us,” this sweater combines niche sapphic subtlety with romantic sentiment. It is also available in inclusive sizes and colors like forest green and maroon.

Celebrate the Lesbian Renaissance with this Chappell Roan shirt. Featuring references to Hot to Go hit and the bold statement “Call me hot, not pretty,” this shirt comes in a variety of colors and inclusive sizes.

For an added pop to your shoes, check out these lesbian color shoe laces with their gradient of lesbian flag colors. Especially perfect for your white sneakers.

13. Enclosed Terrarium

A woman holding a terrarium, a perfect lesbian gifts for nature lovers.

Terrariums are tiny ecosystems perfect for those who appreciate a touch of nature indoors, with the added benefit of not worrying about upkeep or watering. You can make them yourself for her or get a ready-made one.

For the DIY route, this geometric terrarium kit lets you craft your own little green world, complete with live plants and all the tools you need. For those who’d rather go straight to the finished product, this terrarium with a wood base and ball lid is a stunning choice. The elegant glass ball lid creates a charming and modern display for succulents or other small plants.

This is a sophisticated way to introduce a bit of nature into any space without the hassle of constant watering.

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