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Unpacking Lesbian Time: Why Lesbians Move So Fast in Relationships

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In queer culture, there’s a well-worn joke that lesbian relationships move at the speed of light. Lesbian first dates can quickly morph into moving in together within months, weeks, or even days (aka U-Hauling). In “lesbian time,” what would take years to build in a heterosexual relationship happens in a fraction of the time. Is…

Is it OK for Straight Men to Visit Lesbian Bars?

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Lesbian bars hold a special place in the queer community, serving as vital sanctuaries where queer women can connect, socialize, and express themselves freely. As the number of these spaces dwindles, their importance has only grown, making the question of who is welcome within their walls more pertinent than ever. Are straight men allowed in…

2025 Lesbian Slang Terms to Update Your Vocabulary

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For most of us, being a part of the queer community feels like living in a completely different world with its own culture and language. Not to mention each subgroup of the LGBTQIA+ community can have its subcultures and expressions. Within the lesbian community alone, there are words for types of lesbians, relationships, inside jokes,…

Why Rainbow Capitalism Isn’t All Bad: A Lesbian’s Perspective

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In recent years, the term “rainbow capitalism” has generated heated debates, especially during Pride Month. But what exactly does it mean, and why is it significant for both the LGBTQ+ community and the brands that seek to support it? Scroll through a comment section in June, and you’ll hear complaints about rainbow capitalism, queerbaiting, and…

What is Queerbaiting? The Controversy Affecting Your Favorite Stars

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In recent years, the term “queerbaiting” has sparked heated debates and discussions across various media platforms. Originally coined to describe a marketing tactic where creators hint at, but do not actually depict, queer romance or LGBTQ+ representation, queerbaiting has evolved to encompass a wider range of issues. This practice promises visibility and inclusion but often…

Sapphic vs. Lesbian: What’s the Difference?

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If you have scrolled through lesbian TikTok, Tumblr, and Instagram, you might have encountered the word “sapphic.” Often interchangeably used alongside lesbian and WLW, you may be wondering, “What’s the difference?”. But as with LGBT/queer labels, this one holds a distinct purpose that we love. Here’s the definition of sapphic, how it’s used, why we…

What to Expect at The Woods on Wednesday’s Misster Lesbian Party

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Misster is a weekly lesbian/queer event held every Wednesday at The Woods, a popular bar in Williamsburg. While The Woods isn’t exclusively a lesbian or gay bar, every Wednesday, it becomes a haven for queer women, trans, and nonbinary folks. Here’s my review of their Misster lesbian party experience and a quick guide on what…

What is the Viral Lesbian Masterdoc? A Summary

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If you’re queer and spent a lot of time on TikTok post-2020, you’ve probably heard about the “Am I a Lesbian? Masterdoc.” Here’s a quick, no-fluff summary of the lesbian manual that’s taking the internet by storm and awakening queer women around the world. I. What is the Lesbian Masterdoc? Brief Summary The Lesbian Masterdoc…