The first time I experienced baby gay panic, I felt like a deer caught in headlights, except the headlights were a cute girl’s cheeks blushing, and I was about to implode. My brain went blank, my palms turned clammy, and suddenly, I was twelve years old again. I froze, and for the life of me,…
When I first started exploring the queer scene in Los Angeles, people constantly recommended that I join kickball leagues or a book club to find queer community. True for anyone searching for friends or to form a community, the best AL to find your people is to just exist intentionally in the same spaces. Here…
These clever and creative Lesbian Valentine’s Day cards bring representation to the forefront, offering visibility through cultural references and a mix of heartfelt, cheeky, and deeply personal sentiments. From U-Haul puns that resonate uniquely within the sapphic community to illustrations that honor our shared history, these cards let us feel seen, heard, and celebrated in…
From the lavender gemstones to the bold labrys axe, queer women are proudly embracing these sapphic symbols in their jewelry. More than accessories, they’re declarations of our pride, subtle signals, and tributes to queer history. In a world where lesbian identities have often been hidden in plain sight, lesbian jewelry can be a stylish yet…
In lesbian culture, every day is Valentine’s Day. So how can we make this holiday of romance extra special, beyond the chocolates and overpriced prix fixe dinners? Here are some creative and intentional ideas for your sapphic Valentine’s Day date. From a night of grand gestures or if you’re just hoping to dodge the Hallmark-industrial…
A carabiner clipped to a belt loop. A nautical star wrist tattoo. A “lavender menace” shirt. These are just some of many sapphic symbols I’ve slowly been discovering that signal lesbian identity, pride, and history. Beyond the rainbow flag and woven into objects, colors, and even emojis, each carrying its own unique story. Let’s decode…
For many of us queers, the holidays can feel like a tangled mess of cultural pressures and complicated expectations. Many have drifted from their biological families due to homophobia. And others have built their own chosen family—one filled with friends, a partner, or even your own little queer household. And some may be flying solo…
Ah, how else to feel truly seen than by reading poems that capture the depths of sapphic love? A love so profound, so tender, and so transformative that only poetry can offer a glimpse into its many layers. These are the words that catch in your throat, the verses you scribble in your journal at…
The Los Angeles lesbian social scene is honestly more centered on curated queer parties and community organization than specific bars and restaurants. While West Hollywood is home to around 20 gay bars, the options for lesbians specifically are more slim, especially with growing concerns about women’s safety at popular WeHo bars like The Abbey. So…
The Secret of the River (El Secreto del Río) is one of Netflix’s most culturally rich series to date. Set in the stunning region of Oaxaca, Mexico, the TV show weaves Indigenous Zapotec culture, gender identity, and revolutoinary themes of friendship into a powerful and heartfelt story. With a unique focus on the muxe community,…